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After Synagogue Shooting, Connecticut's Jewish Communities Reflect On Faith And Hatred

Rabbi Michael Farbman prepares for Sunday School in Orange, Connecticut the day after the Tree of Life synagogue shooting in Pittsburgh.
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Rabbi Michael Farbman prepares for Sunday School in Orange, Connecticut the day after the Tree of Life synagogue shooting in Pittsburgh.

Jewish congregations around Connecticut struggled this weekend to absorb the news out of Pittsburgh. Several communities held candlelight vigils to remember those killed in a mass shooting at the Tree of Life synagogue. 

Those tending their congregations had to decide too how to address the tragedy -- particularly how to speak to children. 

Early Sunday morning, a police car sat outside Temple Emanuel of Greater New Haven. Diane Orson visited the synagogue, and spoke with Rabbi Michael Farbman just as parents were bringing their children in to Sunday School.

Interview Highlights

On security measures

We are a small community that prides itself like any Jewish community on keeping our doors wide open and welcoming. A number of years ago, in fact after Newtown, we made a decision to keep our doors closed and locked during religious school.

On talking to children about the shooting

Sadly, this is not the first tragedy that we have experienced in recent years…and every family has their own level of what they talk to their children about and how they talk to children about it. And so every Sunday morning begins with…an assembly gathering of children and parents in which I do a little teaching, little music, a little teaching through music.

I have spent a lot of time [Saturday] trying to figure out exactly what songs I'm going to bring, so that they bring the message of hope, so that we can all learn a little bit about Judaism and our take on life at these difficult moments without necessarily naming the events.  

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A candle lighting ceremony at a vigil for the Pittsburg synagogue shooting victims held at the Jewish Community Center of Greater New Haven in Woodbridge Sunday night.

On discussing the rise of anti-Semitic incidents with older children

It's a conversation that all of us wish we never had to have with our children. Whether it is at home or in a communal setting, it's a conversation we wish we never had to have with our adults in the communal setting. The conversation, should it emerge, and when it emerges with older kids with teens especially, is both about acknowledging the scary part of the world, and acknowledging, perhaps, for many of these not just kids -- for many of these adults -- for the first time acknowledging the fact that anti-Semitism is alive and well.

I sadly have a lot of experience. I grew up in in the former Soviet Union. I grew up in Belarus. I've had first-hand experiences of anti-Semitism my entire childhood and teen life, and the early adult life as well. So I'm not naive. I have been incredibly blessed knowing that this sort of thing doesn't happen every day in the United States.

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A vigil held on the steps of Congregation Beth Israel in West Hartford on Sunday.

On balancing safety while practicing faith

These kind of things when we think about our security of course this is a very different hatred that may be driving those kind of acts. But hatred is hatred and so the only thing I know to do as a Jew is twofold: On the one hand we tried to review how we can keep ourselves safe. At the same time, we go to the heart of what we do and what we believe. We try to work on making ourselves a better people; making our world a better place. We engage with our sacred tradition. We learn. We teach. We study our texts. We celebrate our rituals and we go and we look after the world and the people who need our help.

Diane Orson is a special correspondent with Connecticut Public. She is a longtime reporter and contributor to National Public Radio. Her stories have been heard on Morning Edition, All Things Considered, Weekend Edition and Here And Now. Diane spent seven years as CT Public Radio's local host for Morning Edition.
Ryan Caron King joined Connecticut Public in 2015 as a reporter and video journalist. He was also one of eight reporters on the New England News Collaborative’s launch team, covering regional issues such as immigration, the environment, transportation, and the opioid epidemic.

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